Comments on: Can there be intimacy in porn? http://isabellavalentine.com/femdom-hypnosis/2008/05/14/can-there-be-intimacy-in-porn/ Thu, 20 Nov 2008 14:17:21 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.5.1 By: Psycheout http://isabellavalentine.com/femdom-hypnosis/2008/05/14/can-there-be-intimacy-in-porn/#comment-15473 Psycheout Thu, 10 Jul 2008 15:34:31 +0000 http://isabellavalentine.com/femdom-hypnosis/?p=1813#comment-15473 Wow, how utterly depressing! You obviously have to be aware that the sex industry is based on fantasy and that reality and real people can spoil the fantasy because they are too lazy or too cynical to pretend well enough for you to suspend your disbelief, no matter how motivated you may be to do so. I can't help but think that anyone with a webcam or telephone sex related job comes in contact with any number of weirdos and assholes, so it's understandable if they erect a necessary mental barier which can spoil the fantasy for the customer, in this case you. I know this is an old post, but I wonder if this experience caused you to do any introspection about your own service or your past work as an "operator." And that you ended up using a photo of yourself...a bit amusing. What is that, irony? A surprise ending? A sign of an unusual sized ego? A condemnation of the emptiness of the sex industry? A sign of how isolated individuals in society are from one another? An inability to discern reality from fantasy? I dunno, but it funny and sad at the same time. My initial reaction was that it gave new meaning to the popular phrase "go fuck yourself." Or maybe it was just some stuff that happened in May. Who can say? Wow, how utterly depressing! You obviously have to be aware that the sex industry is based on fantasy and that reality and real people can spoil the fantasy because they are too lazy or too cynical to pretend well enough for you to suspend your disbelief, no matter how motivated you may be to do so. I can’t help but think that anyone with a webcam or telephone sex related job comes in contact with any number of weirdos and assholes, so it’s understandable if they erect a necessary mental barier which can spoil the fantasy for the customer, in this case you.

I know this is an old post, but I wonder if this experience caused you to do any introspection about your own service or your past work as an “operator.”

And that you ended up using a photo of yourself…a bit amusing. What is that, irony? A surprise ending? A sign of an unusual sized ego? A condemnation of the emptiness of the sex industry? A sign of how isolated individuals in society are from one another? An inability to discern reality from fantasy? I dunno, but it funny and sad at the same time.

My initial reaction was that it gave new meaning to the popular phrase “go fuck yourself.”

Or maybe it was just some stuff that happened in May. Who can say?

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